First, now let you sad things, a long time to look back will feel that is not a matter of fact, the reason why you will see the pain so heavy, because you have not experienced enough.
Second, everything is too serious, bitter heart, tired themselves. Some things, you really do not see clearly, see clearly, heartache, some people, you really do not see understand, see understand, hurt feelings. Life is not accustomed to too many things, see, see, understand, are looking for sadness.
Third, life’s tired, half from survival, half from comparison. Many times we are not for themselves in the world, but for the “face” and live. People’s troubles, most of them are not lack of what is not satisfied, but because “others than their own good” imbalance.
Fourth, there is no such thing as a missed person, will leave are passers-by; what fate is unfair, are lazy so that you become incompetent.
Fifth, the older we get, the more we find that everyone is immersed in their own lives and circles, there are not many people remember you, there are not many people care about you, there are not many people who can understand you, there are not many people who are willing to accompany you, there are not many people who can accompany you for a long time.
Sixth, the rose on the thorns, not to hurt others, but to protect themselves, want to be a good person, very good, but never need to let themselves become an all-or-nothing “good guy”, the old is to fulfill others, will allow themselves to continue to be hurt.
Seven, two eyes, all parallel, but not equal to see people. People’s two ears are divided on both sides, but always good to listen to one side of the word. People only have a mouth, but always speak two sides.
Eight, life’s four major suggestions: cherish your people, give up to give up your people, care about the people who care about you, good for you.
Nine, the height of life, not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you see light. The width of the heart, not how many people you know, but how many people you tolerate. Do people like mountains, look at all things, and tolerate all things. Do people like water, can enter and exit, and know that the advancement and retreat.
Tenth, sometimes you put down what, not because of the sudden willingness to give up, but because the term to, capricious enough, mature enough, also know that this page should be turned over.
XI, for people: regardless of mouth stupid or sweet mouth, good heart is the principal. People live a life: no matter can say or can do, bright and open is the key.
Twelve, your world has 0.1% of the people love you, 4% of the people inexplicably like you, 6% of the people hate to annoy you, there are 20% of the people only want to use you, the rest of the 70% of the people just know each other.
Thirteen, the rest of life is not so long, do not have to pay, to get used to the inch, please be loyal to themselves, live like the original model.
Fourteen, one of the necessary courses for adults: learn to recognize their own mistakes, but let yourself go, with regrets to live well.
Fifteen, sensitive people always like to keep guessing each other’s moods, keep guessing each other’s ideas, and then began to panic, began to suffer, began to blame themselves where not good enough, and finally ate their own, asking for suffering, and their own forced themselves to no way back.
Sixteen, it is our choice, created our life. Everyone alive, in order to live, tireless struggle, every day rush through the crowd, every face is no lack of fatigue and helplessness, every heart is bruised.
Seventeen, some things that happen can only be accepted, some people, lost can only let go, some roads, choose to have no return, life is such a helpless.
Eighteen, do people have a measure, is the highest realm of life; do things with the scale, is the greatest learning of life; grasp the measure of people, in charge of doing things with the scale, day by day, in order to seek between the inches of the height of life. Inches, is the key to life.
Nineteen, and then the scenery of the people, behind the scenes there are cold and bitter, and then happy people, there are helpless and difficult, whose life is not easy to laugh at people equal to laugh at themselves, respect for others is to respect themselves.
Twenty, if a person does not have the feeling of suffering, it is not easy to give sympathy to others. You want to learn to save the spirit of suffering, you have to suffer first.
Twenty-one, do their own enough, do not use their own point of view to force others to moral abduction, people and people grow up in different environments, each person also has their own views and hardships. The requirements of others to loosen a little, will not always disappointment: you ask yourself a little more stringent, will not always frustrated.
Twenty-two, the road of life, difficult and easy to go; the world of love, cold and warm will always have. Some things, do not want to do have to do, is to do a good job in tears; some love, can not let go to put also have to put, even if the heart again pain and suffering also have to put.
Twenty-three, rotten things not to the heart, villain not to the eyes put. Happy day is a day, the past is smoke; happy a year is a year, troubles are short.
Twenty-four, make things happen, put a fart people feel very reasonable, you failed, said again reasonable people also think it is a fart. Therefore, you have to make yourself valuable, you have value, you do anything, say anything, will make people feel justified.
