A few days ago, I received a private message in which both the man and the woman, both 28 years old, disagreed on the frequency of sex. The woman thinks that two or three times a week is normal, but the man thinks that such a frequency is “indulgence” and will distract him. He wants to abstain from sex once a week. So the question is, in the matter of sex, in the end, what frequency is considered normal, how to be considered “overindulgence”? Today we will discuss this issue with you. Different people have different views on the frequency of sex life, not only depends on his/her age, but also depends on his/her social environment, family environment, as well as his/her physical state, psychological state and many other factors.
01 What is the difference between male and female sexual needs?
Men and women of different ages have different sexual needs. For those of you reading this article, the vast majority are in the period of high sexual desire.
Therefore, for you, the frequency of sex is still relatively high, not to mention two or three times a week, or even two or three times a day is also a “common meal”.
The twenty-somethings at this time is in the peak of sexuality, not only the libido is strong, but also very easy to get excited (ding ding erect), even after ejaculation can quickly regroup, and again and again. Although it may feel a little “backward” compared to the teenage student years, but it is also definitely a strong stage in all aspects. Boys at this time are like little teddies, they can dislike the sky, the earth and the air. The twenty-something girls, in this aspect of sexuality may still be relatively shy, constrained, often not quite able to fully open up, the demand for sex is not so strong. There is also a possibility that they may be distressed by the high frequency of the male partner’s needs when they first get married. Overall, guys in this age group generally have a stronger sex drive than girls. –
ThirtysomethingsAfter crossing into their thirties, men’s sex hormone levels begin to decline somewhat, and their sexual functioning is able to feel a bit of a gap compared to when they were in their twenties. This period of time men generally still have a relatively strong libido, but not as moving as Teddy wants to move his waist back and forth. Can control their own needs, and can better meet some of the female sexual needs. The woman’s psychological barriers are gradually broken through at this time, not only is she more familiar with her own body, but she also knows how to get satisfaction as well as reach orgasm.
Regular sex between two people at this time, generally speaking, can obtain relative harmony. However, if the man’s sexual function declines for various reasons, such as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, then there may still be disharmony. – 3-Forty-somethings Men in their forties are not as active as they could be in their late forties. Sexual desire decreases, energy, physical strength is also declining, sexual excitement up than before to slow. Before look at sexy beauty can support up, now need sex partner touch or even kiss to slowly and leisurely to raise their heads. At this time the demand is less, but more understanding of the needs of the woman, in the sex life will try to meet the woman. At this time, the female libido relatively speaking reached a peak, without the psychological aspects of the repression, the demand for complete release. However, as she is approaching menopause, her vagina may become dry and require the use of lubricants to help lubricate it. During this period, the woman’s sexual needs may be higher than the man’s, and since the man’s sexual function is not as good as it used to be, sexual disharmony is likely to occur. – 4 – Fifty or sixty years old this time both men and women’s sexual needs have been reduced, sexual function are also declining, some elderly people are still able to maintain a certain frequency of cohabitation, but more or psychological needs.
02 The frequency of sex life should be how much
There was a ‘sex frequency formula’ on the internet before, which was regarded as a guideline for some people to have sex. This one is summarized according to the law of the influence of the age factor on sexual function. Specifically, the frequency of sex = the first digit of age x 9. That is, multiply the ten digits of one’s age by 9. The ten digits of the resulting product is the number of days a sex cycle lasts, while the individual digits are the due frequency of sex. For example, a person in their 20s, 2 x 9 = 18, should be able to have sex 8 times in 10 days without affecting their health or work status, which is about once every 1-2 days. a person in their 30s, 7 times in 20 days, which is about once every 3 days. And so on and so forth.
So, the question is, for those of you who are already in a relationship, can you achieve this frequency? In fact, in China many partners mostly take a regular fapping frequency of 1-2 or 2-3 times a week between them. And the realistic frequency of snapping should be based on not feeling tired and uncomfortable the next day. For example, some young people, energetic, want to snap every day, and do not feel particularly tired after snapping. If both of you are interested in the current frequency and have plenty of energy, you don’t have to worry too much about “whether it’s bad”. You can rest assured that someone will fall behind, and when Ta can’t stand it, it means that this frequency is not suitable for you. If you are feeling tired after the snap, or even dizziness, back pain, loss of appetite, anyway, all kinds of discomfort to come, then don’t hard to hold on. The body has told you that the number of times is too much, it can not stand. Sex life, there is no fixed frequency and mode, more mainly between sexual partners according to their own situation to explore belong to their own that way. Remember, the important thing in sex life is quality, not quantity!
