Let’s talk about sex today without hiding anything. Many people think that this is a private matter, but it is really closely related to our lives and relationships. I’ll be blunt, in sex, men can give women the most basic, is respect and communication.
First of all, respect, this is not an empty word. Some men in the sex, full of their own needs, do not consider the feelings of the woman. Take the pre-preparation for example, some men come up on the straight to the point, completely disregard the woman is willing to, there is no ready. How can this work? Sex is not a person’s thing, have to respect each other’s wishes and rhythm.
Moreover, everyone’s acceptance of sex and preferences are different, some women may like the environment warm and romantic point, some may pay more attention to the atmosphere. If a man does not respect these differences, only according to their own ideas, it will certainly make women feel uncomfortable. Also, after finishing, falling asleep is a big no-no. Women after sex, psychological often need more comfort and companionship, if the man did not say anything, patting the buttocks on the sleep, women will certainly make mutterings, feel that they are not valued.
Plus talk about communication, which is too important in sex. Many couples or couples, there is a misunderstanding in this regard, think this kind of thing do not need to say, by feeling on the line. But feeling this thing, sometimes really unreliable. Like a couple, together for many years, but every time sex is not too harmonious. Later realized that the husband has not been aware of some of the wife’s preferences and feelings, the wife is also embarrassed to say. If they can communicate early, the heart of the idea are open to speak, may have solved the problem.
Communication in sex is not only about exchanging preferences, but also about sharing one’s feelings and needs. If a man feels uncomfortable or has a new idea, don’t hide it, talk to your partner generously. Similarly, if a woman has a complaint or expectation, she should tell her partner openly. Only through communication, two people can slowly understand each other, so that sex becomes more harmonious.
Respect and communication, these two things seem to be simple, but is the most basic and important in sex. If a man can do these two things, not only can the woman in sex more comfortable, but also let the two feelings warm. So ah, male compatriots, reflect on reflection, they do enough in this regard.
Family members, respect and communication in sex, really is not a small matter, it is related to the relationship between the two affinity warm and cold.
