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Love, never lies in frequent contact
The most fearful thing about getting along with men and women is that the two of them will be put in a lot of rules and regulations.
For example, there are always people who will say: if the other party cares about me, must be the bath time, also want to wipe clean hands, to answer my phone.
In fact, this kind of relationship is really horrible.
Two people get along with the space, if it is so to bundle, each other are worried about an accidentally burst the bubble of love, then this love, must eventually become a dream bubble, like a dream.
To put it bluntly, the two sexes get along with each other, never is frequent contact, on behalf of you very much in love.
Rather, even if the two people can not be accompanied by morning and evening together, will not be wildly jealous; even if the occasional frequent contact, or can not find each other, will not be wildly imagined.
Because at this moment, you trust each other, each other have to worry about.
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Love, never lies in the distance
The three elements of intimacy: passion, intimacy, promise.
In the world of love, it is easy to generate passion between people; it is not impossible to have intimacy; but the level of promise is a scene of soul intertwining, confession of action, and attachment to each other.
Is it possible for two people to reach the certainty of giving each other promises by staying under the same roof every day?
It is hard to say.
Movie and TV dramas, there will always be such a scene, two couples every day, but rarely have a common language; two people seem to be in the companionship of old age, get along with each other, but the same way.
Just because, people this life, one day, you will understand: men and women to establish intimate relations, and distance, no great relationship.
Some people, even if the daily not far away from the place, but you are also very difficult to intersect, and even deliberately get together, it is difficult to find a common topic.
In particular, along with the growth of age, most people, for the demand for intimate relations, will more and more will not stay in the physical level, but more obsessed: there is a person who can be the same frequency, it is very happy; three or five confidants, has been enough.
Therefore, intimate relationship, the best relationship, never decided on the distance and contact, but decided on these two words: spontaneity.
-03-
The more “casual” relationship with each other, the more love is open, romantic, knowingly
We will always read a lot of articles will mention that the hot love of men and women, will always love the person in WeChat in the top, in the phone directory will set different ringtones and avatars …… In short, the person must be in their own life trajectory, different.
Moreover, the two of them also no matter how late, have to say “I love you” to each other, no matter how early the next morning can not get up in bed, have to set the alarm clock to the other side to say “morning” …… But the fact is, the deliberate maintenance, often will cause the relationship of the solidification and static.
The two people’s emotions, are standardized in a template, shrouded in a small circle.
When a relationship, lost “spontaneity”, will lose the love of frankness, romantic, knowing.
Only “spontaneity”, in order to get the great freedom.
Listen to my friend said, her boyfriend in the first confession, especially want to reply to him a love story, she thought of a word of an ancient people, but forgot the specific content, so go home and rummage through the entire bookshelf, just to find that sentence.
However, the man does not always know that the whole process when receiving this sentence.
However, my friend said: I do not feel pretentious, but rather I feel in love.
After being together, they often go out and travel together, if time is tight, the place of interest will occasionally be different, they will also be very spontaneous to move separately, and then meet again to meet at a certain location.
This feeling, she says, has a romantic sense of a chance meeting in a strange city.
That’s because, while the maintenance of adult relationships will always be full of flavors, the one that can’t be separated from it is:
You both essentially share the same goal of wanting to run the relationship well, so you don’t bother with the details of the discrepancies;
You are all able to find your own comfortable state in the relationship, so to do well is to give each other the best lover;
You all know that a good relationship, from each other at any time to feel the temperature of the other body, so, even if the leisure time you catch up with the drama, he played the game, also does not affect the beauty of your together together;
You are sure that each other is their own can at any time to the back of the delivery of the person, this mutual feeling, will make you incomparable connection, incomparable dependence.
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In short, intimate relationship, the best relationship, is: spontaneous
Love, will always be like writing aimlessly, but also can write the radiance of the blossom, but also be able to experience the flavor of tea.
Love, always like hearing the rain hit the window pane, also feel very beautiful, very romantic.
Because the essence of love is that two people can move from ambiguity to love, and eventually establish an intimate relationship, and in this relationship can be spontaneous, spontaneous and live.
A good relationship is gradually, in each other’s hearts have a sense of weight.
And the best relationship is to make this “weight” is not so heavy, but relaxed, spontaneous and natural.
